How in the world do I stop this ?
In the Dime package, you can move your ends before the snap. I often just use it to ram the TE at the line. For some reason this year the QB seems to often throw it where the receiver should have been if not interferred and I find this leads to errant throws (which often can also be intercepted). It helps if you can also shift to a tall linebacker or safety and user him. Way too many players have trouble then finding their next receiver long enough for your line to get the sack as they are focused on the TE as the primary receiver. Of course I am sure better players have a better solution than this, but this does seem to work for me when I see someone wants to focus on the TE.
User bump the TE. Hold L1 and press x at the snap of the ball and jam him for 5 yards, let go and lurk the middle.