elmango30 said:hey man, you can use that word if it’s important to you. I guess? I’m just telling you that I, and many other people, consider it à slur.
Me personally, in your situation I would have said “oh, didn’t realize” and rephrased. Your reaction was…informative.
Sure bro, sorry my vernacular offended you. I gotta move on with my day though, I'm sorry to tell you but I don't feel like some terrible person for saying it like you want me to. Enjoy your day 😊